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Christmas Table Setting Etiquette

Published On December 19th 2011. Under Christmas, Table & Dining Etiquette  Tags: christmas, table manners  

Christmas is a magical time of the year, that we all love to share with our family and special friends. And we think you will agree that festively decorated Christmas table is one of the most important things of this holiday, along with Christmas tree and presents. The whole family will gather around the table and if you are hosting Christmas dinner at your house, you want your table setting be as festive and impressive as possible. And we are here to help you with that.

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Before you start decorating your Christmas table, there are few things you need to consider:

– How many guests are you having?
– Do you want your dinner to be formal or casual affair?
– What type of table do you have – round or square?
– What kind of mood are you looking to create?
– Certain theme?

These questions will help you figure out the following:

1. Is there enough place for all the guests. Although the number of guests should be confirmed in advance there is always a chance that someone will call in at the last minute or one of your guests will bring someone along. So, be always prepared for unexpected guests.

2. What size of tablecloth you will need. We advise you to think about the shape of your table in advance, because it will help you realize how many people can sit comfortably around your table, as well as what size of tablecloth you will need.

3. If you wanted your Christmas dinner be a casual thing, please think again. You can have casual dinners almost every night of the year, but this one is special, so we highly recommend you to make it formal. This is a great opportunity to impress your family and friends and to have something to remember.

4. If there is a special theme you are after, then it is always better to think about it in advance, so you can buy or make centerpieces and other things according to the specific theme. You can step outside of the traditional holiday color scheme of green and red and use other tones for a sophisticated look.

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Table Setting

As we have already mentioned before Christmas require a more formal table place setting.

Here are a few rules of formal dinner table setting etiquette you should remember:

– we always start eating with flatware at the outside and toward the plate as the meal proceeds;
– forks are on the left side and knives and spoon are on the right of the plate;
– flatware should align with the bottom rim of the charger;
– bread-and-butter plates are always placed to the left and above the plate;
– stemware is set above and to the right of the dinner plate;
– water glass stands above the dinner knife, white wine to its right, and red wine top center;
– the charger should be removed after everyone spreads napkin on the lap;
– napkin is set under the forks or decoratively folded on the charger;
– the cake fork and the dessert spoon are laid across the top of the setting;
– the cake fork’s tines are set facing right and the spoon’s bowl facing left;
– before serving dessert clear the table setting from the bread-and-butter plate, butter knife, and both wineglasses.

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Tablecloth

One thing to remember about tablecloth is that it shouldn’t be too long, so that your guests could sit and not have the tablecloth touch their legs. But also your tablecloth shouldn’t be too short either. The desired overhang is 10-12 inches to lap level.

The color of the tablecloth should be coordinated with your selected Christmas table theme. If your tablecloth is in a plain color, than adding a table runner in a brighter color will be a good idea. But please remember that keeping to just two or three colors in your table decoration will help create more elegant and exquisite look.

Napkins

There are two things you can do with a napkin: fold it beautifully or decorate it with napkin rings.

Festive Christmas Dinnerware

We hope it goes without saying that you should use the best dinnerware you have while setting your festive Christmas table. By using plain white plates and simple glasses, you can easily dress them up using colored napkins, crackers and a few decorations.

Place Card Holders

Using place cards adds a very formal and festive touch to your Christmas table setting.

christmas place card holder with pine

Place cards will be great contributors to your initially selected theme for decorating your table.

christmas place card on table setting

Centerpieces

And the final, but the most important part of the Festive Christmas table setting is the centerpiece! This is like a main jewel to a crown.

Creating or selecting the perfect centerpiece for your Christmas table is very important, because this is what makes the table festive and special.

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We wish you a very special and magical Christmas and we hope that your Christmas dinner table this year will be impressive and unique!

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Do you have questions about Christmas Table Setting or you think we forgot to mention something important? Come talk to us! Leave your comment below!

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Last reply was August 15, 2013
  1. Cheryl Hooks
    View August 15, 2013

    Thank you for your tips! I am hosting a formal dinner for 22 people this year. I have a sister that feels free to invite people to join us. I too do NOT like the idea of anyone spending the holidays alone. However, I simply can’t deal with the stress of more than 22 dinner guests. Is there a polite way I can tell my sister to stop inviting people? I don’t want to offend her as her intentions are good. I do wish she would have her own dinner party if she feels the to invite people. I appreciate all of your help and ideas. Thank you, Cheryl

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